О человек, творение чудесно!
Творенье бренное, о царь земли!
Ты слаб, ты червь, ты мал,
Пылинка ты в сравнении всего;
Но силён, велик умом.
Ты мыслию божественнен,
Зиждитель и творец.
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Нет рабства безнадёжнее, чем рабство тех рабов, себя кто полагает свободным от оков. - И.В. Гёте.  
RU Alex 129 #28.03.2007 16:15  @AGRESSOR#03.02.2007 15:18

Alex 129

AGRESSOR> Правда, его тягу к сбору и анализу кучи политических портянок я понять не могу никак. Это не то чтобы в минус уходит, но что-то сомнительно, что кщееш не понимает, что жизнь прекрасна и без политики... ан-нет, из 100 постингов у него только один с ентой самой политикой не связан. А жаль! :(

Полностью разделяю точку зрения предыдущего оратора.
Человек сознательно идет в потенциально скандальный раздел форума, влезает в драку, закономерно получает в ответ "сам дурак" и после всего этого почему то обижается.
"Странные эти существа люди"(с)
Всему есть своя причина  
Что то навеяло :D


И в этот момент, после того как я произнес такую охуительную речь, сногсшибательную такую речь, речь, полную гениальных параллелей и ответов на загадки мирового масштаба, контркультурную такую речь, из тех речей, что случаются один раз, в состоянии алкогольного или другого опьянения, ближе к четырем утра… В этот самый fuckin' момент Лена (сука тупая, эта Лена) поднимает на меня свои поросячьи глаза и (блаженны нищие духом) так тихонько интересуется:
Я молча сдергиваю с себя футболку и закрываю дверь, разделяющую комнаты…


Духless С. Минаев :)
Нет рабства безнадёжнее, чем рабство тех рабов, себя кто полагает свободным от оков. - И.В. Гёте.  

  • Bredonosec [10.11.2014 21:41]: Перенос сообщений из кщееш
  • Bredonosec [10.11.2014 21:55]: Перенос сообщений из кщееш


По поводу знакомой и мужа-дебила — моя дочка отписалась (она психолог по образованию). Переводить не буду, т.к. нет времени.

So, I would first suggest listening to this ted talk as a primer.

Why domestic violence victims don't leave

Leslie Morgan Steiner was in “crazy love” — that is, madly in love with a man who routinely abused her and threatened her life. Steiner tells the dark story of her relationship, correcting misconceptions many people hold about victims of domestic violence, and explaining how we can all help break the silence. (Filmed at TEDxRainier.) // www.ted.com

It's pretty good. Though not all encompassing. it can give some insights.

Speaking VERY generally, it's also to remember that abusers are largely predatory. They work by undermining your confidence and making you doubt yourself, while at the same time isolating you from family and friends, financial resources, transportation, and even communication. They want to make themselves the most appealing option even if they're obviously terrible people by leveraging the fear of the unknown against you (if not the fear of stalking.)

When dealing with victims of abuse, be supportive, be patient, be a contrast. These people are often under high stress and their abusers are usually actively trying to turn them against to, To maintain communication, be a bastion of support and stability. You're trying to clear a way for them to be able to get out and even sending down a little rope; you're not trying to kidnap them because that will likely harm your relationship and make them see you as another forceful person that overrides their desires, and they are likely to resist.

Here are links to some abuse checklists:

This is ABUSE

Abuse in a relationship comes in many different forms, but it's mainly when someone tries to control, intimidate or hurt their partner. It can happen in lots of different ways and can be caused by males or females. // thisisabuse.direct.gov.uk

Domestic Violence and Abuse: Signs of Abuse and Abusive Relationships <--much more thorough

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Quick Checklist

SIGNS THAT YOU'RE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP QUICK CHECKLIST Are you examining your relationship and wondering if what you are going through is abuse? Below is a quick checklist of some of the abusive behaviours that you may be enduring.             // maggiesresource.com

There's a few clear themes there.

These are some sections from a blog that I respect. The authors often use pop culture and non-scientific language in order to make the content easily accessible for the layman. There is some projection and clear bias, but I feel their insights are valuable regardless. There are various degrees of abuse presented here, but you will find some good advice and general patters and examples on how to help friends who are being abused that you can model your own script after. It is also highly advisable to find a professional, if you can consult them, because cultural differences could very well impact how this advice is interpreted.

Reader Question #4: My friend is dating someone terrible, or, Secrets of The Darth Vader Boyfriend.

  Dear Captain Awkward: A close friend is dating a total loser.  Please give me the magic-spell-words to make him see this and dump him.  Or else the fortitude to watch him marry this creep.  ... // captainawkward.com

#272: When you see Darth Vader coming, do you speak up?

Ahoy, Team Awkward, I have found myself in a weird Darth Vader situation, and I'm not sure how to handle it while still maintaining my own principles and values. I'm fully prepared for, "Just stay ... // captainawkward.com

#294: My daughter is in a dysfunctional relationship, how do I help her?

Dear Captain Awkward, I know this is a really long post but I hope you read it through. I really need your advice regarding a situation with my daughter. A little background….about 2 years ago, my ... // captainawkward.com

#454: Darth Vader is a tricksy hobbit.

Hello, Citizens of Friday. First order of business, this great nod of solidarity for the socially awkward from Dorothy Parker. ‎"Those who have mastered etiquette, who are entirely, impeccably righ... // captainawkward.com

#640: "I know he would never physically hurt me" and other fairy tales.

Here there be dragons. And bees. Dear Captain Awkward, I’m trying my best to sort this out myself, and I am starting therapy in a week or two, but I feel like I’m flailing around, grasping at whate... // captainawkward.com
LT Bredonosec #24.10.2016 23:33  @кщееш#25.02.2007 20:48
RU кщееш #25.10.2016 01:22  @Bredonosec#24.10.2016 23:33


Bredonosec> с праздником :)

День оон! )))
Между прочим .
LT Bredonosec #26.10.2016 01:32  @кщееш#25.10.2016 01:22
кщееш> День оон! )))
он, он, кто б спорил :)
RU Полл #02.06.2017 15:57  @кщееш#25.10.2016 01:22


Привет! Как жизнь молодая?
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